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I promise I will have my author profile for everyone up tonight, but I just need to talk this out.\u00a0 I think everyone has had that one friend who has crossed the line and double crossed you.\u00a0 Some people do this for attention, others for control and others border on mental illness.\u00a0 I will share a story and you can make your own judgement where this person lies.<\/p>\n

I am part of a forum where we discuss books, men, sex, our personal lives etc.\u00a0 This is a safe place and everyone on there is on there with the understanding that it is for fun.\u00a0 With this being online you meet people from all over.\u00a0 From Australia to New York to Texas to California to Canada…you get the idea.\u00a0 So we all have different view points and different life experiences.\u00a0 Thats what makes a group like this so awesome.\u00a0 As adults you can have the freedom to discuss, “argue” and gush without it turning into something mean.<\/p>\n

Well, today i found out one of the members has been having problems with another member.\u00a0 Normally, I don’t get involved with this.\u00a0 I figure its between those two people and they are adults and will work things out.\u00a0 But, when I heard the extent it went I got really upset.\u00a0 Without going into details and since this is third and fourth hand I will summarize.\u00a0 Apparently one of the members of this group became friends with a couple of the other members.\u00a0 This is not unusual, but the events that happened after the friendship began is what is disturbing.\u00a0 One of the friends became very possessive.\u00a0 She began acting that if she didn’t get her way she would say mean and hurtful things.\u00a0 When that didn’t have the desired effect she began to attack others.\u00a0 She tried to corrupt other members of the group against these persons.\u00a0 I think what was most twisted was that she would send gifts to her friends family and husband.\u00a0 This person would use any and all information contorting it to suit her needs.\u00a0 She even went as far as contacting one of the authors that we all like and telling lies about a few of the members out of jealousy.<\/p>\n

Now, I know that was all very vague and I am not using names.\u00a0 But, when I heard that these very sweet and supportive people were under attack from someone who is either not taking her medication or in need of some I couldn’t just stand by and not say anything. So I am using this as my forum to vent about those people we have met in our lives that are just mean.\u00a0 People who double cross, are back-handed and manipulative.<\/p>\n

I don’t understand why people treat friendships like toilet paper.\u00a0 They use it then shit on it and flush it down the toilet.\u00a0 I am a very loyal person and take my friendships seriously.\u00a0 People who live with hate in their heart and get their kicks from hurting others don’t deserve to have friends that empathize and care for them on a level they don’t deserve.\u00a0 I experienced a lot of this first hand in High School.\u00a0 The only thing is we aren’t in High School anymore and there is no reason to purposefully hurt someone.<\/p>\n

So I ask you do you know people like this?<\/p>\n

***To A, N, J, C, S, K and all the other wonderful ladies in IB.\u00a0 I love you all and you all have been supportive and wonderful friends of mine.<\/p>\n

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